Hello beloved friends,
Welcome to a new year!! Thank GOD for allowing us witness yet another year. The message below is for all men.
It’s funny how men claim to have dated a beautiful woman, when the same woman is happily engaged to another man. I feel sorry for men who lie and gossip and their cohorts who believe these baseless lies!! I confronted my sister’s teacher who told her that his friend had alleged that he dated me once. I found that quite offensive because that is a plain lie. I wonder why men feel the need to do this. Some men, anyway!! I’m the last person anyone should do this to because I’m not controversial, i am not a celebrity, I do not hunger or thirst for fame and neither am i in love with the spotlight. I am a servant of GOD, my only passion and purpose on earth is to Know and serve GOD and to glorify HIM through my talents and love HIM in the broken-hearted so why someone would pick me out for this kind of rumour is still very puzzling to me.
Gossip is the devil’s radio station, many tune in, sadly. Christians should not be listening to gossip and they should not condone gossip.
I am aware there are many people with ill intentions in the world today which is the reason why i do NOT hug men, i only shake their hands and that’s it. I do not invite ANY MAN over to my house. I receive purely female visitors. I do not hang out with men at odd hours of the night. That is not me. I am not a party animal, I am an indoor person, books consume my time, mission trips too and spending time with the LORD; I have no time to mess around, I do not give the devil that chance to mess with my mind. So, if anyone (whom I’ve never dated) claims to be dating me or claims to have dated me before, you can be sure that’s a lie. My house is strict, I wonder by what means they gained entry into my house. Only shallow-minded people would spread lies and only shallow-minded people would believe lies.
If you have nothing worthwhile to talk about when you hang out with your male buddies, other than discussing a list of women you dated in the past, then please, take your gossip elsewhere. And exclude me!! I am not that type of woman, I have no time for baseless gossip and I will not tolerate gossip and lies and slander against me.
If you meet a man or woman and they are in a relationship, engaged or married, please, LEAVE THEM ALONE!! Spreading lies that you dated them or are dating them is not only un-Christian and wrong but takes GOD’s blessings away from you. Not to mention, you offend GOD with that because clearly, the priest says “What GOD has joined together, no man should put asunder” in the case of marriage and if you come between two people and break their covenant with each other, be sure that GOD is NOT HAPPY WITH YOU!!
When someone posts about Christian books and valuable Christian resources, no one is interested. They don’t want to further their knowledge or improve their minds; but when a controversial story or post comes up, everyone is interested, you see them sharing, retweeting, etc on social networks. Is this what your life has become? That happy stories cannot make headlines only controversial stories? Why can’t the world be interested in real issues like poverty, hunger and war and children who die of starvation? Why can’t you be interested in genuine world issues and be part of the process towards ensuring a happier humanity? Why can’t you support missionaries who have committed and dedicated their lives to serve the poor, leaving wealth and a comfortable life behind them as they sacrifice for the broken-hearted? It’s because of the world’s attitude and faulty requirements, that many men and women today are not themselves; many good men/women out there with genuine talents but because no one supports them when they are being themselves, they decide to become someone else; hence the disease of nudity, pornography, indecency, teenage pregnancies, illegal drugs, sinful sex/fornication, adultery, blasphemy, etcetera because these men/women feel that is the only thing that sells in the world today; the only thing that will bring bread to their tables. Do you have to push people this far?? People would spend money to buy magazines that feature the latest “Celeb gossip” but the same people would never donate or help a missionary who needs funds for a mission trip or even donate to poor and less-privileged. You fuel sin in the world instead of celebrating goodness!!
What even makes you think I would announce it if i were married with children? My duty is to protect my inner cycle. When GOD’s blessed you and you’re happy, the world is not happy for you; sadly, it is what it is, this is what the world has become. A world were out of no fault of yours, people just want to kill you and use voodoo and witch-craft to ensure you’re never successful. The fact you’re alive is even a problem for some people. Just like that!! They don’t want to see your face. And to the people who continually want to know my marital status, you’ll forever ask ‘till thy Kingdom come. Focus on what I have to offer, I am here to make JESUS known and loved; if that’s boring to you and you rather find my personal life interesting, then I have nothing to say. I however forgive every slander and lie, I forgive it and I have invited GOD into the situation; HE is a GOD of justice and where HE is involved, changes happen!!
They say women gossip alot but these days, men are far ahead in this sickening trend. You have 5 minutes out of your life, instead of spending it in a Godly way, you start to talk about women you’ve never dated; someone out there just breathed their last, they’d love to have that 5 minutes out of life that you take for granted.
As you read these words, I pray (If you’re guilty) you repent and come to see the light and know that there’s nothing profitable in being a gossip.
And may I remind you all that I wasn’t joking when i talked of going to Court and suing anyone who tries to stain my image.
That’s what legal houses are for. I will NOT be repeating myself the next time i hear lies.
JESUS Bless you all